News from RtR

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We just wanted to repeat the news to all our practitioners in Oxfordshire about the new domestic abuse pathways:

The Domestic Abuse Research Network (DARNet) based at the University of Suffolk are seeking views from practitioners and statutory professionals who work with victims of domestic abuse to complete an anonymous survey on whether MARACs are still fit for purpose as well as the barriers to attending a MARAC that you or your organisation may have faced. The online survey will take around 5-10 minutes to complete. Link to our survey

This research will help us to better understand professionals’ views and perceptions about the continuing role of MARACs in safeguarding victims. We would very much appreciate your input into this research. 

Many people in our training often ask what they should or should not do if someone starts to disclose domestic abuse. Our big thing is not to blame them for what has happened and not judge them in any way.

This short video from NSPCC is obviously aimed at those working specifically with children or young people but the response should be just the same, whatever the age:


Here is a message for all our DA Champions in Bucks:

Dear all

I have been asked to let you know that the County’s Domestic Violence & Abuse Needs Assessment is now live! If you have used any of our services to support a victim or perpetrator, child or adult then we want to hear from you. Your experience will help us understand which areas need improvement and how. Please take a few minutes to complete our anonymous survey before 31 July.

Thank you

Here is a message from Louisa (a Champ) at Flag DV:

We want to tell you about our new website and a significant change to the referral pathway of which you access Flag DV.

From 14th June 2019 we stopped accepting paper or scanned versions of our old referral form. With the launch  of our new website we replaced the old form with an online digital version which is located on every page of our website. All self referring clients and professional referrals made with the consent of the client must now complete this digital form to access free legal advice. Our website address is

This is a poll for men from our friends at UK Says No More:

We are delighted to announce that UK SAYS NO MORE, in partnership with Stay Safe Global, are undertaking a national survey that will enable us to understand how men can play an active role in ending domestic abuse and sexual violence.

We ALL have a role to play in ending domestic abuse and sexual violence. Why not voice your thoughts?

Our good friends at OAC have a message about training events they offer:

Girls and women can suffer many forms of harm in the name of "honour" and our charity is now tackling forced marriage, as well as female genital mutilation. In some communities these issues are interlinked, with girls being cut so they are "ready" to marry, before they finish their education. 

We now offer workshops for teachers and students on:

Here is a message from Rachel, our Chief Champ in Slough:

Dear All

Please find attached training dates. This is a one day training to be delivered in both July and November 2019 for practitioners interested in learning more about Honour Based Violence and Forced Marriage and the challenge practitioners face around the complexity of this subject.

This training covers Slough, RBWM and Bracknell and is based at Maidenhead Town Hall. The sign up process is through ‘Achieving for Children’ training website and registration is required.

Based on the success of this training we will be providing a community version of this training as a workshop in February 2020 and would keen to work with any community based groups in the delivery of this.

OSCB are holding an event on 15th July at various locations around the county. 

At the workshop you will learn about the new exploitation screening tool and the two main operational forums designed to deliver this work:

•Children at Risk of Exploitation Network. A multi-agency prevention network to discuss children at risk of exploitation who are not open to Children’s Social Care (CSC).

•Children Missing or Exploited Panel. A panel who will discuss children who are currently open to CSC that have either gone missing and/or are being exploited.

Click on link to learn more